Workshop Vinny in the middle of a Next Step exercise. Photo Credits: Zach Cordner
Photo Credits: Zach Cordner
Wow! Where do I start? What an amazing experience we shared last weekend with each other at Next Step. I felt so honored and grateful that I had a chance to share the experience with you. Thank you kindly for coming into and being a part of my life. I'm so thankful that I have met you. I mean that from the bottom of my heart. We will always be connected and now that we share something very special.
I was sitting at home today just thinking about how we could change this world in such a short period of time with doses of Next Step's medication from the Next Step Pharmacy. That may be thinking a bit out of the box; however we could start with ourselves.
I am reminded of how hasty we are to make judgments of one another based on exterior appearances. It's unfortunate that we don't allow ourselves to delve deeper into the hearts and souls of each other before we conclude with a mental model of someone. At times those instantaneous reactions are not always on the positive side.
I promise to give people a chance; where I'm not being judgmental at initial contact. I'm going to make an effort to get to know people that I meet. I'm going to work at that because I feel that's important to bringing us closer together as loving and caring human beings of this world.
Thanks to my friends for opening up your eyes and hearts and then accepting me into your lives. Thanks for accepting me for who I am, because I am who I am. I can only be who I am, and I make no apologizes because of who I am. I want you to think about that for yourselves as well.
Our strength will be to share our burdens with each other, and to assist each other in trying times, as well as good times. It is my wish that your hearts continue to be happy and that your life's journey bring the best to you and yours. You are truly deserving of the best, because all of you are the best.
I'm ready to go to work. To work at practicing love with my sleeves rolled up. To build bridges that will help others to cross to a world of love, compassion, sharing, caring, and honoring. I know you will continue that quest.
Thank you for the labor pains that you all went through to birth this movement in this world.
We can and will make a difference in our own special ways if we “do the right things for the right reasons”.
Take care my friends and perhaps I will see or hear from you soon.”“If you really knew me you would know that I have been trying to get out of my box so I could put this email together.
If you really knew me you would know that this is way outside of my box and I am happy to be writing this right now.
If you really knew me you would know that since Next Step I have felt more alive and passionate then I have in years.
If you really knew me you would know that I have been addressing my demons since Next Step and I am consciously still fighting them. Through this struggle I have gained valuable information about myself that scares me and inspires me to become a better person.
If you really knew me you would know that I read the whole Next Step Next Step manual and it is the first non-magazine that I have read in years.
If you really knew me you would know that I have been working hard to be the change in my world by adding activities from Next Step to the soccer world. We have sat down partner-to-partner and expressed why we love our partner. We have done if you really knew me, we play hug tag, and lastly we have sat in small groups and told the group why we love ourselves as the group applauded and screamed loudly. One girl fought hard to get outside of her box and actually did the exercise which was very hard for her.
If you really knew me you'd know that her getting out of her box felt better than any win I have ever experienced.
If you really knew me you would know that after Next Step, I gave my brother the card I wrote for him during one of our activities and it has brought us closer together.
If you really knew me you would know that on the night Next Step ended I went to my girlfriends and told her my fears of abandonment and promised to not let that get in the way of me loving her.
If you really knew me you would know on that same night I came home and told my mother all about Next Step and then appreciated her for 2 straight minutes.
If you really knew me you would know that I am sending this email to my mom as well, this is the first time I have ever emailed her.”